tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post8010236273894263872..comments2024-02-10T05:35:03.074-06:00Comments on * v i s u a l * v a m p *: How Do You Like To Be Talked To?Visual Vamphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17703228111473936714noreply@blogger.comBlogger73125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-14038307179167528082010-08-27T11:35:28.756-05:002010-08-27T11:35:28.756-05:00My "blog voice" definitely reflects who ...My "blog voice" definitely reflects who I am as a person. Sure, I like peppering my writing with various adjectives, but I am not a fan of the saccharin-sweet voices some people adopt. I just don't speak that way, so I don't write like that either. I don't go around using words like "smashing" and "darling", but that's just me. If others want to do that, it's their prerogative. <br /><br />I noticed I was named by VVFan on the list of cliquey bloggers who don't have you on their blog roll. I'm pretty sure you know that you've been on my blog roll for years now! I don't see how I fit into any cliques, but it's interesting to hear other's perspectives. I suppose anyone can really infer whatever they want from the tone of one's blog.<br /><br />Interesting post!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16168824588739872769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-71716896204840170232010-07-17T22:42:15.937-05:002010-07-17T22:42:15.937-05:00My blogging voice is a more thoughtful me. Writin...My blogging voice is a more thoughtful me. Writing, by nature, takes a little more time than speaking and therefore allows for the use of bigger words and a longer thought arch. My blog is a true representation of me but allows me to dream a little bigger, see a little clearer and enjoy the boons of a more optimistic outlook. PS - I've always loved your blog. Cheers!Sarah Greenmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11996115971325480478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-69845633965210311542010-07-17T15:46:34.762-05:002010-07-17T15:46:34.762-05:00Anon 6:45-
I feel like I'm pretty "in th...Anon 6:45-<br /><br />I feel like I'm pretty "in the know" on things, but in reality, I guess I'm COMPLETELY clueless. What blog is PW? and what is the other blog you are referring too? Please share, I could always use some new reading material.<br /><br />Thanks!<br />:)Marienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-84485093742590576972010-07-17T13:54:24.971-05:002010-07-17T13:54:24.971-05:00anon-A, you so funny, that was a hilarious comment...anon-A, you so funny, that was a hilarious comment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-69769874053703486822010-07-17T12:15:29.264-05:002010-07-17T12:15:29.264-05:00The beauty of blogging is that an individual can m...The beauty of blogging is that an individual can make it there own. Readers can follow or not.<br /><br />I don't mind the cute endearments so much, but don't appreciate / respect when a blogger steals content and isn't generous crediting photographers, designers, stylists, etc.<br /><br />Thanks Val for making us all think about this topic!<br /><br />xo,<br />cristinCristin // Simplified Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13087851251083940026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-2071256838935953682010-07-17T10:58:02.233-05:002010-07-17T10:58:02.233-05:00PS - for what it's worth, and I know it's ...PS - for what it's worth, and I know it's not much, you are on my blogroll, too, and have been since I started blogging.Katie Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02593122859582031091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-28563393084529407662010-07-17T10:21:46.538-05:002010-07-17T10:21:46.538-05:00Call me naive, but the whole reason I started my b...Call me naive, but the whole reason I started my blog was to do what I wanted, when I wanted, without restrictions. Ok, ok. Without restrictions within reason and legal boundaries. The minute I started worrying about what people thought of my blog was the minute that it stopped being fun.Katie Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02593122859582031091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-40897499049712208302010-07-16T18:11:37.554-05:002010-07-16T18:11:37.554-05:00Valorie - Provocative post - I admire your willing...Valorie - Provocative post - I admire your willingness to put issues out there. <br /><br />VV Fan mentioned me on a list of blogs that don't have Visual Vamp on their blog rolls but they got it wrong - we've been on each other's blog rolls for a long time. Aren't perceptions funny though? I often feel like the person on the outside looking in.My Notting Hillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029931096995642571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-69532147753736800312010-07-16T16:29:46.473-05:002010-07-16T16:29:46.473-05:00While I do not write a blog focusing on decor, I d...While I do not write a blog focusing on decor, I do have a blog that focuses on life in general and my observations thereof. I talk a lot about my life since I'm really the most interesting person that I know. I don't curse, except to throw out a "hells bells" every now and then. I really talk like that sometimes...truly, I do. Personally, I like a variety of styles...I don't care if someone's blog is a fantasy as long as it is entertaining and/or informative.Belle (from Life of a...)https://www.blogger.com/profile/17948665147630448055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-48577904509202220982010-07-16T12:11:23.692-05:002010-07-16T12:11:23.692-05:00I feel compelled to comment because of the vulgar ...I feel compelled to comment because of the vulgar and vile Anon comment of 7/14 @ 2:24. Valerie I'm so glad you deleted his/her comment because vulgarity of that nature is not necessary and reveals the insecurities in them as they are pointing to the insecurities of others. If they are going to post a negative comment, at least have the balls/boobs to identify themselves! <br /><br />I've only been blogging a little over a year now but enjoy reading a variety of blogs. Each has its own flavor and while I don't particularly enjoy foul language, I can always push a button.<br /><br />I had the pleasure of meeting you before I even heard of you and your blog at your appearance in Atlanta. At the blogger panel when everyone was being introduced I was like, Valerie who? What does she have to bring to the table? I was immediately enthralled with your personality, sense of humor, your telling it like it is.<br /><br />Then I got to know you on a more personal level that evening during dinner, both of us sharing some things I'm not sure I would share with just anybody. My point is that you're real, down to earth, have your opinions, have your insecurities like we all do but weren't afraid to share. <br /><br />And now I follow your blog and your blog is you. I can hear you saying what you write! Oh, YOU are listed on MY blogroll even if not on those others as mentioned in a previous comment! :)<br /><br />Tammi<br />xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-8814703337557965042010-07-15T18:47:15.313-05:002010-07-15T18:47:15.313-05:00J'adore tes photos excellentes et pleine d'...J'adore tes photos excellentes et pleine d'humour. Super.<br /><br />Juliaenterrement de vie de jeune fillehttp://www.chippendale-chippendales.fr/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-33477254794743497812010-07-15T18:45:47.691-05:002010-07-15T18:45:47.691-05:00VV, you do manage to foster some 'lively' ...VV, you do manage to foster some 'lively' discussions on your blog . . . <br /><br />I want authenticity when I look at a blog. Genuine, honest, realistic writing. And if the bloggers are writing from the heart - - about anything, not just style or decor - - I'll listen. <br /><br />I prefer a humble, self-deprecating blogger to a 'full of myself' Blogging Queen any day. One lady in particular is quite popular,(no, not PW - - she's totally cool), and I'm completely convinced that she is really a competitive b@tch pretending to be just a sweet southern lady with great ideas. She's dreaming of the big time: a book, a TV show, fame and fortune; a Martha wannabe. I find it all so very trite and tiresome - - but, hey, it's working for her; she's got a gazillion people commenting and following. <br /><br />I guess my point is that EVERYONE is going to make a splash whether it's a ripple or a tidal wave. Some people need their schtick to help them believe in their coming tsunami. Others are happy just to wade in the kiddie pool. I'm sort of partial to the waders. - HollyMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-38069492131594973542010-07-15T14:20:50.473-05:002010-07-15T14:20:50.473-05:00Your blog was one of the first I read, and I'v...Your blog was one of the first I read, and I've been reading it ever since. I enjoy your posts. <br />Regarding this post, there is a woman who lives in my town who is a "blogger". On her blog, she makes out like she is Suzie Sweetheart Homemaker, but in real life, she is a horrible trash-talking judgmental gossip, and everyone in town knows it. I don't even look at her blog anymore because it causes me to revulse at her unauthenticity. It makes me wonder how many people portray themselves to be something they're not in their blogs. Hmmm.<br />XOXO<br />KJH<br />http://houseofjoleigh.blogspot.com/Kellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13518836543593251077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-16138813614255190832010-07-15T13:42:47.617-05:002010-07-15T13:42:47.617-05:00Ok. I just laughed so hard I almost peed my pants!...Ok. I just laughed so hard I almost peed my pants! (How's THAT for being real?) Thank god for freedom of speech. Isn't it beautiful? Bravo VV. Bravo for speaking your mind and initiating a stimulating convo. It certainly stirred some people’s pots. You're hysterical. I am a blogger baby (born this month!) and so I haven't developed my "voice" yet. I am an insanely passionate person and intend on being completely honest and open, however, having a bit of an Alice-in-Wonderland state of mind, some people may think I've gone 'round the bend occasionally. I may make up silly words or act a little off, but that's just me. One thing I will NEVER be, though, is insincere. I don’t care much for fake people. The way I see it, regardless of who you are, be it through to your bones. I’ll take a genuine pompous ass over a fake sweetie pie any day. At least I know what I’m getting from them is real. <br />On the other hand, I get that some people want to have a blog with a strong, definitive, maybe wacky, persona. It’s just their thing. And I do like different writing styles. Que sera sera, I guess. And to each his own. I’ll find inspiration anywhere, though, regardless of whether or not the blog oozes cheese. I might not wanna have drinks with you and develop a long-lasting relationship if you appear uber fake, but I’ll still look at your pictures. :)<br />Let me say this: regardless of your blog style, people, don’t be hateful. There are ways to express your differences without viciously attacking people, as I believe VV has done quite nicely here. <br />Love your spunk and sass VV! I'll definitely be a reg.LittleBlackHomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13993153598489934372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-40236590274715644482010-07-15T13:06:42.284-05:002010-07-15T13:06:42.284-05:00Can we just blog along now??Can we just blog along now??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-26954331513100141022010-07-15T12:21:53.822-05:002010-07-15T12:21:53.822-05:00wow, really interesting post/ questions and enjoye...wow, really interesting post/ questions and enjoyed the descriptions- some definitely made me laugh...<br /><br />i know i try to be 'me' on my blog and i try to write how i speak and portray who i really am... i don't quite KNOW who my readers are- their ages, occupations, etc. and so I don't try to tailor my blog for the reader.. ultimately, it's for me and whoever wants to come along for the ride can.<br /><br />i know that blogs are outlets for a lot of us, so i guess if people are trying to be someone else or have a very different voice, then in some way they are still partly that person they're "pretending" to be? not quite sure... but maybe some ppl don't have a good outlet for all the design-talk in real life and get it out in blogworld... babling sorry, but really great topic.<br /><br />xoxo,<br />lauren<br /><br />oh yeah & I say "xoxo" because i do hug and possibly kiss (if you're lucky! ;) when i'm saying bye to friendsLaurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03471301027836728285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-22179382596816866192010-07-15T10:52:18.512-05:002010-07-15T10:52:18.512-05:00So odd to see myself mentioned here. I don't p...So odd to see myself mentioned here. I don't partake in any cliques or anything, at least not willingly. I have my own reasons for everything I do. It's my blog.<br />Anyway...LOVE this post, Valerie. Are you the new decorno, telling it like it is? <br />I never have considered myself a writer and I don't have a 'writerly' blog. I'm not clever enough that way and I'm not fooling myself. So I think it's just my real voice and have been told people recognize me in my blog, which is good to know; I hate the affectations too. <br />I think your blog is your voice too. Of course, we've never met in person, but I feel I've gotten to know you through your blog as I have with others. Anyway....keep up the good work -keep us on our game.ArchitectDesign™https://www.blogger.com/profile/01481754380363676771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-1376971398163045712010-07-14T23:46:52.080-05:002010-07-14T23:46:52.080-05:00As a fairly new blogger (since March) I've won...As a fairly new blogger (since March) I've wondered about my "blog voice" and how I sound. I do work with kids so the silly story teller comes out in my posts once in a while but that makes it kind of fun and that's me. I feel that I can truly be myself in my posts, sometimes more so than in real life. The connection with like minded souls has made that possible, it's been a godsend.<br />xo J~<br /><br />btw- now I'll be able to say "hey" to Decorno if I see her around town (would I dare?)...hope she's doing well, she's missed!24 Cornershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13630767883910250689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-41285629811671471192010-07-14T18:50:27.710-05:002010-07-14T18:50:27.710-05:00Valorie
Love this post and your observations are ...Valorie<br /><br />Love this post and your observations are interesting and entertaining. The nicest compliment I get is when a friend says "I love your blog. You write just like you talk - it just sounds like you". I don't think I take it any more seriously than that. I appreciate the compliment, I love the community among friendly bloggers and I LOVE the creativity, the education and inspiration I get from other blogs.Hill Country House Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15669069876394459689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-39283475922036693202010-07-14T17:14:06.638-05:002010-07-14T17:14:06.638-05:00Goodness! (and I do say that in real life). What ...Goodness! (and I do say that in real life). What an interesting topic, and some wildly divergent opinions. I write on my blog as I speak in real life - too much energy required to do otherwise. I hope I sound educated when I write - I actually am educated! I don't swear simply because I've had to eliminate cursing around my chld. I would never curse in a blog post anyway - it just doesn't seem necessary. But, I never claimed to be hip or cool, so what do I know? Everyone needs to be true to themselves, and whatever reasons they have/had for undertaking blogging in the first place. To each his own.Cynthiahttp://exuberanthome.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-36661045652989299052010-07-14T15:41:40.529-05:002010-07-14T15:41:40.529-05:00Anon. 2:24 I would like to respond to your post be...Anon. 2:24 I would like to respond to your post before VV deletes it as she has several others today. I personally think all posts should be visible to her readers, but this is not my blog.<br /><br />I think your attack on Valerie is unwarranted. I see nothing insecure about her, quite the contrary. She shares a lot of her personal design endeavors in a way that shows she isn't trying to "put on the dog", but making an effort to give her readers an idea how one can create beauty creatively and perhaps on a tighter budget. I think her post today was very interesting when you consider how seriously some of the design bloggers take themselves today. We have bedrooms featured and are told they are "universally admired" so we much all knuckle under and rave about their timeless beauty. REALLY??? , In addition, we are to believe what's in and what's out based on their taste and what they can afford. I have been checking into this site for nearly a year and I have never seen Valerie put down the design schemes of others' work - quite the contrary. I believe her sense of security speaks for itself. She is probably one of the few bloggers who attempts to nurture the talents of others in the design and blog world and while she no doubt has her favorites, it hasn't kept her from objectivity. Yes, I get my post deleted from time to time on this site and believe her standards are a little bit too high for lively conversation which makes me believe that is the reason you see fewer comments here than on other sites. Again, it's her site so we can't argue. There are a number of other bloggers who you could attack with more reason. I hope you can figure out who they are and move onward.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-77383715811127366132010-07-14T15:35:59.680-05:002010-07-14T15:35:59.680-05:00OUCH! Some ANON needs a happy pill... whatever. I&...OUCH! Some ANON needs a happy pill... whatever. I'm still learning my way around blogland and trying to find my voice. I've read many who seem to write like they speak - and others I hope they don't really talk like that.(snob-blogs)<br /><br />I think my posts are casually written, although sometimes have been commented as being a tutorial (lol - thanks - I think?) Whatever- like others have said - read - follow or don't - and move on...<br /><br />So how's you kitchen project coming along Val???<br /><br />:D LyndaLYNDA QUINTERO-DAVIDShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01443098224970691696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-86000198465285616682010-07-14T14:24:45.702-05:002010-07-14T14:24:45.702-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-18888192368656021922010-07-14T13:06:44.111-05:002010-07-14T13:06:44.111-05:00If we drop the words "jaw-dropping" from...If we drop the words "jaw-dropping" from the lexicon, can we also drop the word "perfection" of which there is none. Those who use it often in their posts imply that they are the arbiters of it and therefor privileged to judge it in others. It seems out of place when judging design work. Just a suggestion . . .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-462500305642907315.post-33415282447138491522010-07-14T12:29:17.410-05:002010-07-14T12:29:17.410-05:00To recap:
I like all blogs.
I like gay people.
I l...To recap:<br />I like all blogs.<br />I like gay people.<br />I like straight people.<br />I am one hundred years old.<br />My house though not a hovel, is not perfect.<br />I do not mind opposing opinions, and a good discussion, but I do mind anon hate mail. <br />I will delete anon comments that are out of line.<br />Write me personally if you have a serious issue with me. <br />Don't ruin the spirit of a good lively discussion for the rest of us with your same old tired vendetta.<br />xo xoVisual Vamphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17703228111473936714noreply@blogger.com